Always rest in solutions

This post will focus on one of the most important issues in life: PROBLEM SOLVING. Being a Software Engineer I would like to suggest a 2 step algorithm that can solve almost any problem
(almost though) encoyuntered in life i,e. social,psychological,personal,financial,etc etc.
Here it goes:
1. Always rest in solutions
The common error we make while trying to solvea problem is that we focus on the problem so haed that we are not able to see the possible solutions. What I suggest is that we rather focus on the solutions of the problem rather than the problem itself.
2. Problems can never be solved at the level at which they were created
Yes, we will have to think one level above to solve it. Just try and think out of the box. A very freaky idea can solve a big problem that has not been solved by traditional means.
If the above fails try your mind you willl definitely get an answer after all its all in the MIND!!!

Yes we are ordinary people!!!

The title of this post is a bit weird but true. We are but ordinary people trying to fight our way to success in this drama filled life. What I want to remind my friends is that though there are a lot of problems in the society and with our lives, we still can make a difference at our own level. The situation can be visualised to be analogous with a dark room where there is no electricity and it is dark. But each one of can light a candle without waiting for someone else to do so. There is no guarantee of fulfillment of goals that we set for ourselves but there is a certainity of not achieving goals that are never set... what I just want to say is that success is not a result of spontaneous combustion, we must set ourselves on fire!!!
After all the difference between the ordinary and the extra ordinary is just a bit EXTRA.

Life pays back uniquely...

I am quite baffled by the fact that no two humans have same figerprints.This perhaps is the idea of God's originality of creation. Leave me baffled. Lets move on to the new post. This post is not a general one but my own idea and interpretation of life. This will be short and interersting. It is a 3 point rule chart(created by me of course). I have found no exceptions, plz comment...

1. Life is very beautiful.
2. Life sucks and sucks hard.
3. Life takes care of each penny it gives and takes from you.

Try to relate the three points they are in my view interdependent!!!!!!!

Can mistakes be overcome

"For all sad words of tongue or pen the saddest are these: It might have been..."
Yes, I have begun this post with a qoute and a considerable one. we alll commit mistakes and mistakes are milestones(if life is a journey) which make us realize where we are heading towards. But it is to be kept in mind that we do not repeat mistakes, then it becomes a sin. The problem arises when we do not give quality time to ourselves. We have time for everyone but for ourselves.Realizing our mistakes is the first part and then taking the necesssary steps to get over it.After all its our life. Its on us whether we get busy living or get busy dying. Its better be late than never, so we have to begin right from now. Always keep in mind that life is our propertry, man was born unarmed, the only weapon he carrries he brain right from childhood.
All humans feed on ideas(knowingly or unknowingly!!!). The thoughts trigger ideas, ideas trigger action and action when repeated over a period of time transforms into habit. And as we all know success is a habit so we can easily guess the power of thought!

Let us Awaken the CHILD within...

I am sorry friends for posting so late. I was a bit busy (without work of course...). This post aims at awakening the child within ourselves which has been sleeping for years.Its time to wake it up before it dies or becomes dormant.What motivates me to write about this? Well it is the good old days of my childhood. I just recall seeing my 9 year old cousin. I see his attitude,the way he enquires every new thing he sees and dares to ask about it.The silly things he tells me and the way he handles his girlfriends!!! Every single action of his is so pure,so free and so full of enthusiasm, that just makes me remind of my and everybody else's childhood. When a child is born he/she has no perceptions.He believes what he is told. When he grows a little then checks it
and buildsa perception for himself.With so many problems of reservations, hatred, bribery and JUGAAD being seen everywhere I just feel that we have lost the child inside us. It is now the time to wake up.I would like to qoute
"When we were small we could wait to grow up, but when we grew up we came to realize that wounded knees were easier to heal than broken hearts..."

What is the zenith for love?

This is the transformed version of the question which the couples ask each other constantly. WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME? This question has various answers since there are wide varieties of human types in the habitat homo sapiens. Each one of us wil reply in a different way to this question. The right question though is What should be done in love? People say that they got screwed up. But if it is so who is to blame then? People can die in love, they can kill in love but they don't want to be a fool in love. A fool in love makes no sense to me, i only feel you are a fool if you do not love. Where there is love there are no questions!!! accept your partner as he or she is and not for what he/she can be. Then it can be said you love someone. Be bold enough to say you can do anything for her: bring dreams wen she cannot sleep, walk beside her when she needs you the most and many more things. Tell her that you can leave her if she says. You will get her, if not here then may be in eternity!!!!! But you will definitely. Don't love like Laila Maznu or Shiri Farhad, love her to the best of your capabilities because you are a different individual. Give the world the best you have and the best will come back to you!!

THE BEAUTY OF FIRST LOVE

This post is dedicated to all those who have loved and won and won. Mind it! There is no losing in love, its an all profit affair. Love carries with itself a madness but there is always some reason for this madness. Whether we get the girl/boy we love is not a matter of concern. We suffer because we chose to. It hurts to know that your love is happy with someone else but it hurts even more when your loved one is not happy with you!!!. The first love like all first things is as pure as a baby's heart, with no expectations and all about feelings. The problems begin to set in once time passes and the society comes into effect. The ifs and buts become a hell too many and the purpose is lost . We begin to concentrate on all vain issues except love. Why can't we be stagnant ? Because this violates the LAW OF NATURE that nothing is permanent but CHANGE. But if I had to follow it then I will love more so that both the law and my feelings remain intact.
What first love is cannot be defined, it can be analysed using poems, stories,quotations but cannot be reakized. The feeling an individual has is that: If loving my loved one is wrong I don't want to be right!! Where does this energy come from ? The love gives this energy. It is a form of HOPE that you will get to marry your loved one, get the prince of your dreams, separate from your love so that the life is easy for him/her. I know that I have not defined love but some words are better left unsaid and the best ones are those which can't be expressed...